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Oct. 1, 2026

S3E91 This Gala is Not About You | RHONY Episode 4 Recap

The fallout from Daisy's Passover Seder continues as Hailey and Erin's argument spills into the next day. Hailey eventually storms out, and Sai talks her down as the women try to move past the latest blowup.

Carole clears the air with Jessel after their disagreement, while Daisy's decision to mention her popcorn ceiling leads to an unexpected argument with Sai. Erika invites the women to her private island, while Sai has an emotional conversation with her aunt about her marriage and her complicated feelings surrounding her mother. Jessel is stressed about Pavit's career choices, and Hailey spends time birdwatching with her mom, who has her own perspective on the Jon Gosselin situation.

Meanwhile, Martha Stewart makes it clear she expects Daisy to be available whenever she needs her.

At Carole's gala, Hailey pointedly ignores Erin, but the two eventually decide to hash out their issues. Unfortunately, they choose the middle of Carole's event to do it, much to Carole's chagrin. Jennifer Tilly also makes an appearance as the women gather for the big night.

πŸŽ™οΈ Join Scott and Geoff of Husbands Watching Housewives as they recap RHONY Season 16, Episode 4.

The Passover Seder fallout isn't over—and Hailey and Erin are still going at it. 😬

Picking up where the last episode left off, their argument continues until Hailey storms out and Sai talks her down. Meanwhile, Carole clears the air with Jessel, and Daisy's popcorn ceiling somehow becomes the latest source of tension when Sai thinks Daisy is bothered by her reaction.

Elsewhere, Erika invites the women to her private island, Sai opens up to her aunt about her marriage and her mother, and Jessel stresses over Pavit's career choices. Hailey goes birdwatching with her mom, while Martha Stewart makes it clear she wants Daisy available at all times.

Then comes Carole's gala. Hailey ignores Erin, but eventually the two decide to hash out their issues—right in the middle of Carole's event. Jennifer Tilly makes an appearance, and Carole is understandably not thrilled with the timing.

πŸŽ™οΈ Scott and Geoff of Husbands Watching Housewives recap RHONY Season 16, Episode 4.